Casual Comment

Sarah was scrolling through her social media feed during her lunch break, as she often did. It was a usual Monday afternoon, and her feed was filled with the regular mix of vacation photos, political rants, and memes. Her best friend, Jessica, had just posted a picture of her new haircut—a bold, bright purple bob. Sarah’s fingers hovered over the “like” button for a moment before she typed a quick comment:


“Wow, that’s a big change! Bold choice 😅”


It was meant to be light-hearted and supportive, but as soon as she posted it, Sarah had a nagging feeling. She wondered if the emoji came across as sarcastic. "Whatever," she thought, dismissing the idea. Jessica would know she didn't mean anything by it.


A few hours later, her phone buzzed with a notification. Jessica had replied:

“Bold, huh? Didn’t realize it was so shocking to you.”


Sarah blinked at the screen. Did Jessica really take her comment the wrong way? Trying to fix it, she quickly responded:


“No, no! I love it. Just different from what you usually do, that’s all!”


Another buzz:

“Wow, thanks. You really know how to make someone feel great about themselves 😒.”


Now Sarah was worried. She didn't want to upset her friend. She thought about calling Jessica to clear things up but decided it was best to give her some space.


Over the next few days, Sarah noticed Jessica wasn’t liking or commenting on any of her posts. Whenever they messaged in their group chat with other friends, Jessica's responses to Sarah were short and terse. Their mutual friends even began messaging Sarah, asking if something was wrong between them. The more Sarah tried to reach out, the more Jessica seemed to pull away.


The situation snowballed. A mutual friend, Claire, posted a vague status about how some people don’t appreciate others’ efforts to be unique. This prompted a flood of comments about how important it is to be supportive of your friends. Sarah couldn't shake the feeling that this was about her.


Feeling overwhelmed, Sarah decided to take a break from social media for a few days. However, it didn't stop there. In their next group hangout, things were awkward. Jessica barely spoke to her, and there was a tension in the air that everyone could feel.


Finally, Sarah decided she had to do something to fix this. She invited Jessica out for coffee, hoping they could talk things over face-to-face. Jessica hesitated but agreed to meet.


As they sat down with their coffees, Sarah took a deep breath. "Jess, I’m really sorry if my comment upset you. I didn’t mean it that way at all. I think your hair looks amazing, truly.”


Jessica looked at her coffee, stirring it absentmindedly. “It’s just... when I saw your comment, it felt like you were making fun of me. I wanted to do something different, and I thought you didn’t like it.”


Sarah shook her head vehemently. “No, not at all! I was just surprised because it was different, but I really love it. I guess I just chose my words poorly.”


Jessica sighed, finally looking up at Sarah. “I’m sorry, too. I guess I overreacted. I’ve just been feeling insecure about it, and I took it out on you.”


They talked for a while longer, slowly easing back into their usual banter. By the end of the coffee date, things felt almost normal again.


Afterward, Jessica posted a photo of the two of them on social media, smiling with their coffees. The caption read, “Nothing like coffee with your bestie to make everything better ❤️.”


Sarah commented, “Absolutely! So glad we talked it out 😊.”


This time, there was no misunderstanding. The likes and supportive comments rolled in, and both Sarah and Jessica felt a sense of relief. It was a lesson learned for both: words, even on social media, can have unintended consequences. But with a little effort and understanding, even the most casual of remarks could be smoothed over.


As Sarah scrolled through the comments, she smiled, feeling a warmth of contentment. It was good to have her friend back.

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