The nurse took my band and said, “Her hair is whispy. Draping bits of her jet black hair over her ears. An eyebrow on one side that curls upward. Delicate veins over her eye lids as she sleeps soundly. A nose with a low arch and gently curving nostrils. Chapped lips of someone who spends much of their time laughing and crying. She’s perfect”. You breathe a sigh of relief. Everything is going to be okay.