I have undergone a process of redemption and while I may experience moments of anger and upset, I do not consider myself to be of a soft nature. The primary distinction lies in my ability to endure pain. I encounter a range of emotions, yet fragility is not characteristic of my being. I remain steadfast in my commitment to the Holy Spirit and draw strength from my faith, even in moments of weakness. It is often said that one may be strong in their own perception of self, but such a trait is not a defining characteristic of my persona. I am saved, but I’m not soft.