It has been ten year since montana and I have spoken. Last time we spoke we had a huge fight over a big lie that she had told me. I was married to my ex husband back then. The dreadful night i came home early and my best friend and my husband and the father of my children were in bed together. All ether one could say was it just happened we never meant to hurt you. I left out of the room crying got my twin out of bed called my mom and went to her house. What was I gonna do? Where do I go? Do i forgive them maybe it just was a mistake.

`The next morning i go home to get the kids ready for school sp they just think we spend the night at maamw and papaws house. I get home thinking she would not be there and her and my so called husband was in bed still together and my daughter Lilly comes crying to me why is daddy and tan tan in bed togther that is you amd daddys bed. I get her calmed down for school and get jack my son are now on the bus. I go upstairs and wake them both up. I’m not showing any emotion now because i was just thinking that it was just a mistake becausee I had beem working alot and he was lonely. So now I have them both awake Josh is trying to calm me down and it”s not working she is my best friend josh since we were babies. You slept with her. Montana I thought you had more respect for me we have been friends for 20+ years and my husband. Do yall wanna be together? Do yall love each other? The response that came out of their mouths so soon had me feeling in disbeleaf. How could they love each other? How long has this been going on? Josh said its been going on for about a month you were working alot we was not acting like husband and wife. So I found comfart in her and it built into more. He said sorry she also said sorry i slapped them both and told them to get the hell out.

Went to court few months later got full custody of lilly and jack because they father did not get and job he went back home to his parents two hours away. Then as for montana I told her she was dead to me. Now here we are ten years later im remarried two more babies Sophia and Carter. Lilly and jack are now sixteen years old.

One monday morning getting all my kids off to school someone knocks on my door I open it t find montana standing there. Can we talk please I know its been years. I made a huge mistake by sleeping with josh I should have. Never hurt you like you were my best friend my whole life. I have been lost without can we meet for lunch and talk please. I tell her what you gonna do now try and sleep with my new husband now why now. Its been ten years. I come to realize that no man is worth never speaking to my friend again. So can. You give me another chance please tina I want us back. I said okay friday lunch at Cara Cafe.

Tuesday evening I talk to nathan my husband about montana coming to the house yesterday morning about wanting to meet for lunch friday. I think im gonnago what doo you think? I mean it has been ten years. Nathan said go just hear her out then make your decision on what your gonna do from there. Whatever you decision i will support you no matter what.

Friday afternoon we meet at Cara Cafe and I ask her what do you want from this because I am not gonna trust you like this never happened before. She apologizes For hurting me and for evening thinking about my ex in that way and taking my kids dad away from them. She goes on to say she need her friend more then she need any man. Were not together we did not even last 3 months after you lefft he didnt do anything but drink and sleep and eat. So i broke it off. I’m not sure why i waited this long to reach out to you I should have sooner but can you please forgive me for everything and we start over I havae my own husband and babyboy now. The ball is in your court.

Two weeks later I call her and invite her and her hubby and son to dinner and we had a good night and she ges to meet my two youngest Sophia and carter. Lilly didnt want to speak to her. She had her own feelings because she seen them in bed togther back then. Jack did not care thinks of nathan as his dad so everything was good in his court. Sophia and carter are tqo years old now and her baby boy is two as well. So are kids now can grow up like we did as kids and grow bonds like no other and no mistakes will happen but everyone mkaes mistakes and you can forgive them.

Now every week we have dinner our two families combanded together and lilly forgave montana. So all is well and going great. Remember you can make a small mistake or a big one but once you realize that you hurt someone you love and have been a big part of there life and same in yours you miss them and will do anything and evrything to have your best friend back