Loving someone with medicall issues brings challenges but also brings smiles and joy. It brings challenges and envy and longing. Wishing and watching as other couples enjoy years of being with each other and growing old together. Longing that you too would have all that time to be with your partner. Envy that other couples take their time with each other for granted. But with all that you learn to smile and enjoy the time you do have with your partner for it will be shorter then other couples get you do things to make memories with each other.while we are told a life exptancy that isnt normal for my husband its 40 years old he wont live past that is what doctors say we learn to love and care for each other more then normal couples I wouldn’t change anything even if i could for it made my husband who he is and brings us closer together we love deeper and care more then what normal couples do. We learn not to take a minute for granted and learn that one day all we have will be our memories and those things that he once loved his posseions that he cared so much about will one day be mine to cherish and hold close. Through this tragedy good things also come from it.