“Everything happens for a reason”

Don’t you love that saying?

There was a time where I didn’t see the problem in this

This statement

This opinion

But when something tragic happens

Your mindset changes

You change Once I lost someone who meant the world to me I started to believe that this is one of the worst things you could say to someone

Now I do believe that there’s a place and time for this saying But if you’re going through pain Through grief in any way This is the last thing you want to hear

No matter what you say it doesn’t matter what the reason is It doesn’t matter if there even is a reason It simply Doesn’t matter

If there is a reason for A heartbreak Losing someone Losing yourself Anything

Even If there is a reason That doesn’t make it less painful Because when you say that to me It instantly invalidates everything Everything you’re feeling in this very moment

They make it seem easy to just Let go Move on Like nothing even happened Simply because

Everything happens for a reason