How does one know how to love and when to love? When does one convince themselves, they are enough and are able to return the feeling?

When does one stop telling themselves they can’t? How does one learn?

Do we say we are not able to or do we simply refuse?

At what age do we lean we can?

One question after another, yet no answers in sight.

It hangs in the air, like a sword overhead.

The question, it seemed, would always remain: cannot, or will not?