I spent years of my life living in the shadows of my big brother he was always the coolest guy I knew. And everyone else loved him just as much as I did. And when I say “did” I meant that When I was about 15 my big brother went off to college we’d talk on the phone everyday. One day I noticed I hadn’t talked to my brother So I called and didn’t get an answer Instead, I got the voicemail. Hey, you reach Ramen leave a message after the beep He said And jokingly that’s what I did Hey, be here it’s your little sister when you get this call me back screwed