After the issues leading into my sister-in-laws wedding you would think she would apologise. She turned everyone is the family against me. She told them I did not want to be in her wedding. I never said that at all. I actually said “I could not afford the dress, but found one just like in that I could afford.” She had convinced Dad that I would not let my husband, her brother be in the wedding.

She is the center of the world to my inlaws. I never understood that since my husband is the baby o the family. I am the oldest of my siblings and yet not the center of attention for my family. I do understand that my husband’s family did loose a child already when his sister passed away. Then they also lost thier niece who passed away suddenly. I understand that, but i do not agree that give her a right to treqqaat anyone bad.

I went to help her pick out the bidesmaid dresses. I am picking about what I wear and she did not care. I was not that self center when I married her borther. I am more the one that likes to blend into the shadows and so is her brother, my husband.

He does not like the way I was treated by hs family. After the wedding we stopped going over until right before Christmas. He went over by himself and yealled at his sister and parents until his sister agreed to apologise. I told him I would not hold my breathe for her to apologise, since she did ot feel like she did anything bad. I just wanted her to realize I had never said anything other than I had to find a dress I could afford. She took it as my not wanting to be in the wedding.

She did apologise, but it almost seemed fake. She is a very fake person. She did not have any feeling when she did apologise. She thinks she can buy her brother to lke her. I know that so i make it seem like she wants expernsive gifts and make her buy them for him. I gues you can say I have figure out to use her attuitude against her to get what we want.