Lying in bed, thoughts ran rampant through her mind after she hung up on her boyfriend. “Why in the world would he think that’s ok? Why would I NOT want to be invited? Go ahead, spend time with your friends and don’t include me. Never mind that I was dressed and ready to go, that when you said we were going I thought I was a ‘we.’ I’ve had it! I’m going to start to make my own plans and do things for me. No more putting other people’s plans first only to be not included. I am going to do what I want, when I want it, and no one’s plans will trump mine ever again.” Reaching to turn off the light, she hoped the darkness would calm her. “Oh, my God, I hate you.”