The best piece of advice that was ever given to me was "Don't make an ass at yourself making assumptions". In life our mind tends to run a million miles a minute, between true crime television, real life scenarios you have heard through the grapevine, or through personal experiences you may have experienced, our brain tends to have this thirst of putting the puzzle pieces together. I mean how mad can you be at someone? that moment of feeling right, of jumping on your instinct, and having the piece of mind of knowing you can trust your heart can be an amazing feeling. But what about when you're wrong? What if everything you have assumed of this persons character was just a figment of your imagination. A classic case of allowing your mind to not only make an accusation, but build on that accusation and in your head have a case built against this person. So much that losing them is not even an option, but an inevitable butterfly effect of your overthinking, your unwillingness to ask more questions, be straight forward, and maybe just maybe trust the person is who they say they are. The saying goes in life to never forgive a cheater, that no matter what they will always cheat again, and that if you feel that you are getting cheated on too leave and never look back. Some of us have been cheated on multiple times, from multiple different partners, and some of us have cheated on multiple different partners. Which admittedly can make the dating scene a lot harder for people who value loyalty, for people with hopes and dreams of finding the one and being with them until they die. Ironically a good man or woman that values loyalty in life has a tendency to get the short end of the stick. Their character always seems to come into question and even though they want the best for you our minds could be so jaded that we chase somebody with the values and core we have always searched for in a soulmate away from our arms. Damage that person the same way we have been damaged, irreparable damage that scars someone not only on there heart but there mind, there soul goes with them. So for you that stayed up all night worrying, never trusted your partner, and attempted too back them into this corner of being somebody they never planned on being whose to blame if they ever do become that person? Whose to blame if said person becomes everything they were accused of being? What do we say of the person who makes these incorrect assumptions? Somebody who hurts people in this world in fear of being hurt, to assume something of there partner. Abuse them mentally, maybe even physically all off a assumption. An assumption that never had any truth, merit, but something that has permanently changed the lives of two individuals. A misjudgement of somebodies character which in a different universe has a happy ending because you decided too trust. Too bad we live in this world, and in this world your false assumption has not only wasted both parties time. But has left an innocent soul with a permanent scar on there heart, a once innocent who more likely than not will take a long time to maybe trust a partner again. So with that being said the one thing I hope you learn from this is don't make an ass out yourself making assumptions, give yourself time to learn the person. The more we make baseless assumptions of people the more peoples innocence get robbed in a already cold world